I had written a post on why people married and my bad writing skills conveyed what I did not intend to...Worse, it got circulated in my professional quarters that I removed it...As I was cleaning up my machine I found this deleted post and thought I would post it back with a few editing ;-)
Well, the question was simple (WAS interesting then 2 months back...but not interesting any longer)..."Why people married".
The consolidated reasons are:
1. Companionship for life
2. Love
3. Carnal satiation
4. Security
Some felt marriage was a bondage...Some felt it gave a guarenteed companion (or may be, forced...????) to whom one can always look to...Some felt it gave one a person to possess for life...
Though some of the gleaning aren't of my choice, however, I have put the essence of al the different view points...The purpose of this post is to remind me of myself that I had indeed written acontroversial post and of course, an oppurtunity for me to get more feedbacks on this spicy topic...
Cheeeeeeeerz...
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3 comments:
True! It WAS interesting 2 months back.
1. companionship for life -- refer 4
2. Love -- if a marriage has bloomed out of love then that is really a wonderful thing but the question is how many happen that way ?. Mostly we get attracted to opposite sex because we think if they come into our life they will make us happy . Most of the so called LOVE today happens to be this way .
For a transaction to be successful there should be atleast one giver .If everyone wants to be on the receiving side is there any chance for the transaction to succeeded ??? !!!!!!!!!!!!
3. I agree canrnal but does that give satiation ??!! i guess not .
4. May be the core reason was fear thats why the search for security and companionship would come .
so what it is really about ??!!!!
frankly i don't know .....
you might ask then why all the above "bullshit" opinions !! . Those were just to indicate that we can make a lot of opinions about marriage !!!
Marriage is not about whom do you marry but it is about how do you live with that person !!!!
great post yar... thanks for the post back...
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